Antithesis instrumentation improvements (#5213)

* Rename ASSERT to XRPL_ASSERT
* Upgrade to Anthithesis SDK 0.4.4, and use new 0.4.4 features
  * automatic cast to bool, like assert
* Add instrumentation workflow to verify build with instrumentation enabled

include/xrpl/resource/detail/Logic.h

@@ -401,7 +401,7 @@ public:
     {
         std::lock_guard _(lock_);
         Entry& entry(iter->second);
-        ASSERT(
+        XRPL_ASSERT(
             entry.refcount == 0,
             "ripple::Resource::Logic::erase : entry not used");
         inactive_.erase(inactive_.iterator_to(entry));